A parent asks: Hi, would you be prepared to share your view on the parent guilt I’m struggling with? It is so very hard for parents – mothers, in particular, not to feel burdened by guilt. How can the guilt be redirected to being a curious observer – to see there are things to discover that are in a parent’s control that can gradually make a difference?
In this podcast, Jenny Brown explores the challenges of parenting Special Needs children – neurodiverse kids or children with a biological impairment of some kind. She interviews Nicole Clarke, who is both a mother of a child with Autism and a school counsellor. It is helpful to consider if the same principles of working on…
What is the effect of parents representing themselves to their children instead of trying to fix or change their children? A parent’s connection is especially relevant when helping children navigate their screens. Parents can have regular, curious conversations with their children about what is safe and healthy online and what is dangerous and unhealthy.
Adolescents present unique challenges for parents. For example, the reactive push for independence can be triggering for parents. In this podcast, Jenny reveals how parent efforts to correct behaviours can inadvertently reinforce a conflict cycle that can fuel a teen’s physiological reward system: (sensation seeking). An overview of adolescent brain development makes sense of this…
In this podcast, Jenny talks about the pre-teenage phase, parents’ worries about school performance, and the impacts of excessive screen time. How can parents respond to these issues without an anxious worry focus? What is the effect of parents representing themselves to their children instead of trying to fix or change their children? You will…
One of the most challenging aspects of parenting is dealing with stirred-up emotions when we see a child challenged to adjust to a new situation. How a parent responds to a child’s transition significantly influences how they cope. A parent can best help when working to be a calm presence.
“Making small changes, including parenting by my principles, holding these boundaries and speaking from “I” statements, have reduced my frustration and the exhaustion of toddler battles.” Vicki Wilkins, Parent Hope Project, Communities Coordinator
Guest mini blog – Katie Small counselling. “What all this input has done has actually muddied the waters & prevented me from developing my very own thinking.”
A parent listening to the Parent Hope podcast asks: What about clearly defiant tantrums rather than just a child struggling to delay gratification? Any ideas on how best a parent can be a resource?
This is the 2nd in the series: Parenting through stages of development ‘Today’s podcast discusses parenting in the early school years. In particular, how parent’s managed themselves with a shy child. The interactions presented highlight a child’s separation anxiety in the context of reluctance to attend school. The fist interaction reveals the familiar worry cycle…
Self-regulation and the capacity to delay gratification starts in infancy.
This is the 1st in the series: Parenting through stages of development ‘Today on the podcast, we’ll be discussing parenting toddlers Toddler in meltdown- The first push for independence. In this series Dr Jenny Brown conveys how each phase of a child’s development presents parents with opportunities to step back and consider their part in…
